Sunday, January 13, 2013

Of Dungeons and Dreams


Ever felt trapped in a dead end job?  Stuck.  Unable to go any higher.  Or perhaps it’s a situation or a set of circumstances that seemed to have you locked in.  Wherever you may be, you have a choice.  You can drag through the day, hoping it will get over with quickly so you can go home and lay down, or you can meet it head on and make the best of it.

When faced with temptation, Joseph stood firm and did the right thing and it got him nowhere except the Dungeon. Ever wondered if it was worth doing the right thing? Ever had things go from bad to worse as a result of trying to choose to do the right thing? What do you do when you seemed to be locked in a tough spot and life doesn't make sense?  What do you do when you find yourself locked in the dungeon of your soul? 


Joseph was sold to Potiphar and was in his house 10 years, faithfully serving God and Potiphar.  The Bible says that God blessed everything that Joseph did, and Potiphar made Joseph chief of his household, in charge of not only the other servants, but all of the business affairs and in touch with many of the political leaders of Egypt.  The only thing that Potiphar withheld from Joseph was his own wife—for obvious reasons.

Gen 39:6 says that Joseph was “well-built and handsome” and that Mrs. Potiphar noticed him and began to desire him.  She tried everything to tempt him, coerce him, command him to do what she wanted, but he firmly resisted.  He did the right thing.  One day, she came and grabbed him and Joseph slipped out of his cloak and ran out of the house.  She began to scream for the other servants to come help her and then told them that the young Hebrew had tried to attack her and when she screamed he ran leaving his cloak behind.
When Potiphar came home, she told him the same story.  He grew angry and had Joseph thrown into the dungeon.  And that is where we pick up the story today.

Potiphar, most likely, didn’t truly believe his wife.  I say, most likely, because the Egyptian punishment for any slave who attacked anyone in their master’s household was instant death, no questions asked, no guilt received by the master for doing so.  If Potiphar had truly believed her, Joseph would have died instantly.   But there is the thing about saving face.  You can’t have those type of accusations hitting the neighborhood without major ramifications.  If Potiphar did nothing, people would quickly figure out that he believed his wife to be a liar, and that would bring shame on the household.  If he killed Joseph, he knew he would be killing an innocent man that had done nothing but brought the blessing of God on the household.  So rather than lose face, Potiphar had Joseph thrown into the dungeon where all sorts of vermin and disease were known to fester.  And the 10-year rise to head of the household was suddenly brought to a screeching halt.  He had consistently done the right thing and instead of being honored, he was thrown into jail.  Joseph had to have questioned God.  He had to have been discouraged and downcast.

Which brings me to you and me.  Why is it that whenever things take a down-turn we grow discouraged and begin to doubt God’s love for us?  Why do we retreat back into the destructive habits as a way to cope with our disappointment?  Do you ever find yourself questioning God when you tried to do the right thing and it ended up getting you fired or thrown out, or ridiculed?  Did you ever wonder why you were given a certain lot in life or how you seem to work and work and get nowhere financially?  And as you get lost in those thoughts,  the doubt creeps over you like a thick fog, and it is easy to see only your current circumstances and feel that God has abandoned you or that He truly doesn’t care.   It is during those times that Satan gets us to give up even hoping for God’s deliverance.  We just give up and let everything go.  But that’s human nature.


The devil would have you look at the future with no hope of anything ever changing.  Your marriage—it will never change.  Your rebellious child—he will never change.  Your dire financial picture—it will never change.  All of that stuff wrong in your life—well, you’re stuck with it.  It will never change. The devil knows that if he can get us to lapse into hopelessness, we will settle for just trying to get by the best that we can…and if we can’t, we will do ourselves in to seek to escape the hopelessness.  And then he’s got us.  Satan wants everything to look as if there is no hope of anything ever changing.

Joseph could have easily grown hopeless.  He could easily looked at his abysmal surroundings and said, “That’s it God.  I tried serving You and this is where it got me.  Well forget it…I’m through!”  But he didn’t. But he purposed to remain faithful to God even if he didn’t understand the why’s of his circumstances.

Gen 39:20-23  Joseph’s master took him and put him in prison, the place where the king’s prisoners were confined.  But while Joseph was there in the prison,  21 the LORD was with him; he showed him kindness and granted him favor in the eyes of the prison warden.  22 So the warden put Joseph in charge of all those held in the prison, and he was made responsible for all that was done there.  23 The warden paid no attention to anything under Joseph’s care, because the LORD was with Joseph and gave him success in whatever he did.

God hadn’t forgotten Joseph.  There was a bigger picture that Joseph couldn’t see.  God had a plan for him and Satan was trying to thwart it.  But Satan can never thwart God’s plan.   God sometimes allows harder circumstances to come upon us to prepare us for a greater work.  It all depends on attitude and the choice we make in dealing with our situations.


Choosing to trust God when all seems bright is not so hard.  But choosing to trust God in the midst of the storm when all seems lost allows God to build your faith as well as His glory in you. 

Which brings me back to us.  There are some  who believe your circumstances will never change and you just can’t bear to go on with life the way it is right now. So you look for your own alternatives.  You plot and you scheme and you figure out your own way to try to escape your dungeon, but the problem is, it only leads to a bigger dungeon.  You’re still stuck.  You haven’t found the happiness or escape you were looking for.  Only more issues.  More problems.  More  heartache.

If we are to learn anything from the dungeon experience of Joseph, it would be to look to God for our answers.  Trust Him when all seems dark.  Hope in Him when all seems hopeless.  It may take time.  Maybe years, but God is faithful and will bring you through to something greater as a result of your suffering right now. 

It means looking at the situation full on and choosing instead to be the best you can be right in the middle of the mess.  It’s refusing to give in to despair, but instead to look to God and what He wants for you, even though you might not be able to understand it  right now.

G.K. Chesterton, once wrote: Hope means hoping when things are hopeless, or it is no virtue at all...As long as matters are really hopeful, hope is mere flattery or platitude; it is only when everything is hopeless that hope begins to be a strength.  Gilbert Keith "G. K." Chesterton
American Chesterton Society 

Don't give up hope.  God still sees you and knows where you are and what you need.

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