Showing posts with label faith. Show all posts
Showing posts with label faith. Show all posts

Saturday, January 30, 2021

A Future and Some Hope


Have you ever hoped for something…only to have your hopes dashed?  Have you ever found yourself really disappointed by life?  Many of you, during this reign of Covid, have probably had many plans thrown by the wayside.  Seniors…is this the year that you were hoping it would be?  I know it certainly isn’t the life I was expecting to be living just one year ago.  Remember last January?  We were barely hearing things about Covid…and it was happening somewhere over in China…so who really paid attention?  And now…note even 10 months after the shutdown, we have had over 425,000 deaths just here in the United States.  Crazy!  


And whenever huge stuff like this comes along, trusting in anything goes out the window.  The qualifier for just about every plan is worse than Atlanta traffic.  We used to say, we should be somewhere in South GA or Florida, and then we used the qualifier…depending on Atlanta traffic. Now all of our future plans, activities, trips, etc. have one big qualifier.  What is it?  Yeah…depending on Covid.  So everything seems uncertain, tenuous, scary and trust in anything seems to go out the window. 


Have you also noticed that trusting in God is even harder under these circumstances?  Ever noticed how hard it is to trust God, even though the Bible says over and over again that He is trustworthy?   But we’ve grown jaded.  Cynical.   Skeptical.   What we read and what we see seem to be two different things. Especially in this time of Covid, when things that we once had hoped and dreamed for keep falling by the wayside. I bet, Seniors, that you were hoping for more for your senior year.   I bet that all of you are just looking for the day that we can shed these masks and be normal again.  Where is God in the middle of Covid?  Why doesn’t He do something.  Why does He seem silent?


When it comes to trusting God with our future, we often opt for what we think we see over what scripture says about God.  And the devil uses the seeming contradictions to widen the trust schism between us and God.


Ever heard one of these?  “If God is so good, why does He allow innocent children to die of starvation?”  or “What kind of God would allow so much suffering in the world if He has the power to do something about it?”  or “I trusted, I prayed, I believed, and my loved one died anyway—so  how can I ever trust Him again?”   Or the most recent one… “Where is your God now?  Why doesn’t He do something about this horrible disease?”  Ever heard any of those?  If so, you’ve heard the devil speak to you.


Satan himself is the cause of all of the misery that we are suffering, and he looks up from his latest victim, with blood on his hands and screams—“If your God is so good, why didn’t he stop me from killing this one?  If He’s so powerful, why didn’t He step in and do something?”


And while this is not a sermon on death and dying and fairness and good versus evil, the question does beg an answer.  Perhaps a story by author Max Lucado from His book He Chose the Nails can help us understand more on this trust issue.  Listen to this.


Ever tried to convince a mouse not to worry? Ever succeeded in pacifying the panic of a rodent? If so, you are wiser than I. My attempt was not successful. My comforting words fell on tiny, deaf ears.


Not that the fellow deserved any kindness, mind you. Because of him, Denalyn screamed. Because of the scream, the garage shook. Because the garage shook, I was yanked out of dreamland and off my La-Z-Boy and called to defend my wife and country. I was proud to go. With shoulders high, I marched into the garage.


The mouse never had a chance. I know jujitsu, karate, tae kwan do and several other ... uh, phrases. I've even watched self-defense infomercials. This mouse had met his match.


Besides, he was trapped in an empty trash can. How he got there only he knows, and he ain't telling. I know, I asked him. His only reply was a mad rush around the base of the can.


The poor guy was scared to the tip of his whiskers. And who wouldn't be? Imagine being caged in a plastic container and looking up only to see the large (albeit handsome) face of a human. Would be enough to make you chuck up your cheese.


"What are you going to do with him?" Denalyn asked, clutching my arm for courage.


"Don't worry, little darlin'," I replied with a swagger that made her swoon and would have made John Wayne jealous. "I'll go easy on the little fellow."


So off we went-the mouse, the trash can, and me, marching down the cul-de-sac toward an empty lot. "Stick with me, little guy. I'll have you home in no time." He didn't listen. You'd have thought we were walking to death row. Had I not placed a lid on the can, the furry fellow would have jumped out. "I'm not going to hurt you," I explained. "I'm going to release you. You got yourself into a mess; I'm going to get you out."


He never calmed down. He never sat still. He never-well, he never trusted me. Even at the last moment, when I tilted the can on the ground and set him free, did he turn around and say thank you? Did he invite me to his mouse house for a meal? No. He just ran. (Was it my imagination, or did I hear him shouting, "Get back! Get back! Max, the mouse-hater, is here"?)


Honestly. What would I have to do to win his trust? Learn to speak Mouse-agese? Grow beady eyes and a long tail? Get down in the trash with him? Thanks, but no thanks. I mean, the mouse was cute and all, but he wasn't worth that much.


Apparently you and I are.


You think it's absurd for a man to become a mouse? The journey from your house to a trash can is far shorter than the one from heaven to earth. But Jesus took it. Why?


He wants us to trust Him.


Explore this thought with me for just a moment. Why did Jesus live on the earth as long as he did? Couldn't his life have been much shorter? Why not step into our world just long enough to die for our sins and then leave? Why not a sinless year or week? Why did he have to live a life? To take on our sins is one thing, but to take on our sunburns, our sore throats? To experience death, yes- but to put up with life? To put up with long roads, long days, and short tempers? Why did he do it? 


Because he wants you to trust him.   Even his final act on earth was intended to win your trust.      He Chose The Nails, p. 89 -91.


And so we return to the question: —“If your God is so good, why didn’t he stop me from killing this one?  If He’s so powerful, why didn’t He step in and do something?”


The answer: He did.  But He did it in the only way that still allows you a choice.  God valued your choice so much that He Himself will not violate it.  And so He wanted to show you that He can be trusted, but that trusting Him is a choice.  He never wanted to remove from you your power of choice, otherwise, He would have played into Satan’s accusations that God was not fair   And so the choice remains; your choice, my choice, and even Satan’s choice, along with the possibility of God being misunderstood and maligned.  And Satan uses that very choice to cause many to turn away from God.


But if you look past the apparent contradictions, you will find that there is ample evidence to trust Him.  Yet it still remains that it is all about the choice.  YOUR choice.  


And so we weigh the evidence. On the one side, we can see that God loves us.  He came and died to save us.  He’s promised to come back for us.  But on the other hand, we can also see that there is much evil in the world.  As Billy Bob once said, “That don’t take no rocket surgeon to figure out.” 


It is much easier to go with what is seen than to trust the unseen.  We can see all the violence and disease and death.  So much so, that sometimes it seems impossible to see God.  But that’s where the choice comes in.  We will see what we choose to look for.


I went to Prater’s Mill with my daughter, Andrea, several years ago when they were  having the old time country fair.  One of the exhibitor’s there took photographs of birds.  All of his photographs were of some type of wild bird.  He had an incredible display.  But there was one picture that really spoke to me.  The framed version was $195.  I’m too cheap to pay that much, but I had to have the picture, so I looked through all of  his mounted photographs, and finally found it.  And bought it.  


Check out this picture.  What do you see?    An old window frame. Cracked and peeling paint.   Broken glass.  Dead weeds.  Painted window panes.   Even some bird poop.  These are not the things that spoke to me.  We see those type of things all the time.  What spoke to me is what is in the lower right quadrant of this picture.


In the face of all the ugliness; in the midst of the old and broken down, your eye begins to see a few sprigs of green vine.  Signs that there is life in the brokenness.  But if you look a little higher, you will see a magnificent ruby-throated hummingbird sitting on the sill where glass has been broken out, and he is looking UP!


That’s the way God works.  In the midst of our broken and shattered lives, we’ve got to be looking for the tiniest evidence that shows that our God is still with us.  It’s all about the choice.  What are we choosing to focus on? The ugly and broken in this world?  The cracked and peeling paint of our lives?  The bird poop events that happen to us?  Or are we choosing to look at the tiny gorgeous ruby-throated  hummingbird promises that God has left for us.  I have had this picture in my office for years on the back wall directly in front of my desk chair, so that no matter what life may throw at me...it always reminds me that I have a choice.  You have a choice.  We get to CHOOSE where we place our focus.


We can either grow jaded or joyful.  We can grow bitter or better.  Stronger or weaker.  Hopeful or Hopeless.  It all depends on what we choose to focus on.  


Satan screams while God whispers.  In our current world it may seem that God is silent, but He isn’t.  He’s still speaking to those who will listen.  And you can be sure of this, while He may start in a still, small voice, one day God will thunder and Satan will whimper.  Our perspective makes all the difference.  

Which reminds me of a story I read.


A number of years ago, there was a little girl that walked daily to and from school. Though the weather that one particular morning was questionable and clouds were forming, she made her daily trek to the elementary school.


As the afternoon progressed, the winds whipped up, along with thunder and lightning. The mother of the little girl felt concerned that her daughter would be frightened as she walked home from school, and she herself feared that the electrical storm might harm her child. Suddenly, there was a roar of thunder, and lightning, like a flaming sword, cut the sky.


Now fully concerned, the mother quickly got into her car and drove along the route to her daughter’s school. As she did so, she finally spotted her child.  Rather than being terrified by the lightning, she saw her little girl walking along, and at each flash of lightning, the child would stop, look up and smile.


Another and another were to follow quickly, each with the little girl stopping, looking at the streak of light and smiling. After witnessing the fourth flash, the mother, shook off her amazement, rolled down her window and called her to come and get in the car. When the young girl was safely in the car her mother asked,  "What in the world were you doing?  Why didn’t you hurry?"  The child answered, "Well, I meant to come right home, but God just kept taking pictures of me."


How do you face your storms?  Are you fretful and worried, or do you see God taking your picture for his Faith Hall of Fame?  It all depends on how you choose.


Which brings us to the future.  How can you trust God with your future?   Wouldn’t it depend on how you see God operating in your past?


Christian Author and speaker, Ellen White, once wrote: In reviewing our past history, having traveled over every step of advance to our present standing, I can say, Praise God! As I see what God has wrought, I am filled with astonishment, and with confidence in Christ as leader. We have nothing to fear for the future, except as we shall forget the way the Lord has led us, and His teaching in our past history. {CET 204.1} (Christian Experience and Teaching by Ellen  White)


Did you catch that?  We have nothing to fear for our future, except as we shall forget the way the Lord has led us


How can you trust God with your future? Let me quickly take you through some things that can help, no matter if you are trying to figure out what to take in college or if your world  has caved in and you don’t know if you can go on, or if you are just simply seeking to make it through the day.  But rather than you hearing my words, let me take you straight to what God, Himself promised.  


First of all look at how He has led you in the past.  Go over His blessings to you. Look at His miracles in your life.  Remember what He did for you on the cross and what He continues to do for you now.  If you can see His faithfulness in the past, it is easier to trust God with your future.  Has He saved you in an accident or seen you through a critical illness or surgery?  Did He provide a way for you to be here at GCA?  Has he worked anything out for your family?  Can you see his faithfulness in the past? If so, remember it.


Secondly, choose not to worry but to look to God. Choose to trust that God will make a way. 

Psa. 37:3    Trust in the LORD and do good.

Then you will live safely in the land and prosper.

4  Take delight in the LORD,

and he will give you your heart’s desires.

Psa. 37:5    Commit everything you do to the LORD.

Trust him, and he will help you.

6  He will make your innocence radiate like the dawn,

and the justice of your cause will shine like the noonday sun.


When your heart lines up with His heart, He will give you what you desire…which is exactly what He desires.  Not only will He give you the desires of your heart, but God himself promises to walk with  you.

Is. 43:1    But now, O Jacob, (and here you could insert your own name instead of Jacob) listen to the LORD who created you.

O Israel,(insert your name again) the one who formed you says,

“Do not be afraid, for I have ransomed you.

I have called you by name; you are mine.

2  When you go through deep waters,

I will be with you.

When you go through rivers of difficulty,

you will not drown.

When you walk through the fire of oppression,

you will not be burned up;

the flames will not consume you.


Third, learn to wait on the Lord and seek His guidance.

Lam. 3:25    The LORD is good to those who depend on him,

to those who search for him.26  So it is good to wait quietly

for salvation from the LORD.


Waiting quietly can help you refocus your energy on what is really important. 

Matt. 6:33 Seek the Kingdom of Goda above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.


We often spend so much time and energy in worrying about the future, rather than in seeking God.  But it is in the waiting and the seeking that we find our strength.


Fourth, Know that God has a plan for you and it includes hope.  Again, though, it is in seeking the Lord that we find that hope.

Jer. 29:11-13   For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. 12  In those days when you pray, I will listen. 13  If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me.


Is. 40:28-31 Have you never heard? Have you never understood?  The LORD is the everlasting God,  the Creator of all the earth.  He never grows weak or weary.  No one can measure the depths of his understanding.

29  He gives power to the weak and strength to the powerless.

30  Even youths will become weak and tired, and young men will fall in exhaustion.

31  But those who trust in the LORD will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary.  They will walk and not faint.


Fifth-Don’t get hung up on past failures.  Look expectantly to a new future with God.

Is. 43:18,19“But forget all that—it is nothing compared to what I am going to do.

19  For I am about to do something new.  See, I have already begun! Do you not see it?  I will make a pathway through the wilderness. I will create rivers in the dry wasteland.


God can make you prosper even in the driest of times or the worst of times in your life.  And as you grow in your trust relationship with Him, He will cause you to grow stronger and stronger.  What He doesn't deliver you from, He will bring you through to in order to strengthen you.


Sixth- Walk each day in trust and you will find new strength

Psa. 20:7,8 Some nations boast of their chariots and horses,  but we boast in the name of the LORD our God.  8  Those nations will fall down and collapse,  but we will rise up and stand firm.  See, trusting God helps you stand firm


Psa. 125:1Those who trust in the LORD are as secure as Mount Zion; they will not be defeated but will endure forever. 2  Just as the mountains surround Jerusalem,  so the LORD surrounds his people, both now and forever.


Seventh—Look  for the next natural step and be willing to take it.

Prov. 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart;  do not depend on your own understanding. 6  Seek his will in all you do,  and he will show you which path to take.


As you follow His leading, the whole picture will come together for you.  If you focus on Jesus, He will order the pieces of your world and they will fit together perfectly.  Which reminds me of another story.


There was a man who had a little boy that he loved very much. Everyday after work the man would come home and play with the little boy. He would always spend all of his extra time playing with the little boy.


One night, while the man was at work, he realized that he had extra work to do for the evening, and that he wouldn't be able to play with his little boy. But, he wanted to be able to give the boy something to keep him busy. So, looking around his office, he saw a magazine with a large map of the world on the cover. He got an idea. He removed the map, and then patiently tore it up into small pieces. Then he put all the pieces in his coat pocket.


When he got home, the little boy came running to him and was ready to play. The man explained that he had extra work to do and couldn't play just now, but he led the little boy into the dining room, and taking out all the pieces of the map, he spread them on the table. He explained that it was a map of the world, and that by the time he could put it back together, his extra work would be finished, and they could both play. Surely this would keep the child busy for hours, he thought.


About half an hour later the boy came to the man and said, "Okay, it's finished. Can we play now?”


The man was surprised, saying, "That's impossible. Let's go see." And sure enough, there was the picture of the world, all put together, every piece in it's place.


The man said, "That's amazing ! How did you do that ?" The boy said, "It was simple. On the back of the page was a picture of a man. When I put the man together, I taped it so it wouldn’t mess up, and then I turned it over and the whole world was together.”


Matthew West has a great song called “Take Heart”. He premiered it just a few weeks after Covid caused the shutdown here in the US.

The lyrics start this way:


Woke up this morning

And life as you know it

Looks nothing like the kind of life you knew before

All of a sudden

Fear stole the headlines

And it don't feel safe to even step outside your door

In this world you will have trouble

But I have overcome the world

So take heart—- Listen to this.


If you just trust in Jesus, your problems will find resolution.  If you trust in Jesus, your fears can be quelled.  If you trust Jesus, your future will be sure.  If you trust Jesus with your future you will have not only hope, but a very bright future.    Pray with me.  


Rom. 15:13  May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.



This blogpost  was taken from the manuscript of a talk I delivered to the students at Georgia-Cumberland Academy on Friday night, Jan. 29, 2021.  

Wednesday, April 1, 2020

Where Do I Find My Faith?

Over the past two weeks, my FaceBook inbox, my email inbox and many comments left on my Facebook feed have all begun to point at one main question.  “Where is my faith?”  Or “Where can I find peace.”   Is it possible?  And the answer is “Absolutely.”  I know that many others are talking about it, but for the sake of my friends who are asking, I’d like to take a stab at it.

First of all, I think many of us get confused when we hear the word faith.  Where is it found and what is it?  Well, it’s found in the dictionary, which is where most people would logically start.  Oxford defines it this way:

faith | fāTH |
noun
1 complete trust or confidence in someone or something: this restores one's faith in politicians.
2 strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion, based on spiritual apprehension rather than proof: bereaved people who have shown supreme faith.
a system of religious belief: the Christian faith.
  • a strongly held belief or theory: the faith that life will expand until it fills the universe.
It starts out good by saying, “complete trust or confidence in someone or something”, but then goes downhill when it mentions politicians.  Then we see “strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion” but then we see stuff like “based on spiritual apprehension rather than proof.”  The we see “a system of religious belief, and Strongly held belief or theory.”  And none of those are really helpful in restoring my faith.  No wonder we are confused.  I don’t want a faith that is simply based on my spiritual apprehensions or blind trust or simply chanting the mantra, “I believe, I believe” over and over as if God were Santa Claus and I really want to see him at Christmas. 

Here’s the problem.  While the dictionary can take a great stab at defining it, the type of faith we are talking about is not centered in a system or doctrines or even just strongly believing and hoping.  None of those is where true faith lies.

True faith lies in a relationship with a Person.  And the funny thing about relationships is that you can never really prove that they exist, you can only give evidence of them existing.  For instance, I can say that my wife, Sandy, loves me.  But I can’t prove it.  I can believe it to be so.  I can hope it to be so. But I can only point to the evidence of that love.  She treats me nice.  She continues to stay with me after almost 40 years.  She cooks and cleans for me.  She says nice things, etc.  But all of those are not proof—only evidence.  

Each of you could point to examples where the above evidences were only in place until that person could gain what they wanted or something of greater importance to them.  Let’s look at them one at a time.

“She treats me nice”...you already know intuitively that people can treat you nice because they want something from you.  So that is not necessarily a proof of love. “She continues to stay with me”...maybe she has no where else to go and she is comfortable with the lifestyle.  “She cooks and cleans.”  Could be she just sees that as a trade-off for a roof over her head and some groceries.  “She says nice things”...maybe she doesn’t want to mess up her good gig.  

So you can’t point to any of those and say you have conclusive proof.  BUT...if I take all of those pieces of evidence and put those together, and combine that with the ongoing nature of such evidences, I can conclude that my wife loves me.

Nice, Pastor, but I still haven’t found my faith.  Ok.  Since we are talking about God, why not see how HE defines faith. And since the Bible is His self-revelation to us, let’s see what it says.

In Romans 10, Paul points out that the Jewish people were having some of the same struggles that we have when it comes to walking in faith.  

Romans 10:1    Dear brothers and sisters, the longing of my heart and my prayer to God is for the people of Israel to be saved. 2 I know what enthusiasm they have for God, but it is misdirected zeal. 3 For they don’t understand God’s way of making people right with himself. Refusing to accept God’s way, they cling to their own way of getting right with God by trying to keep the law. 4 For Christ has already accomplished the purpose for which the law was given. As a result, all who believe in him are made right with God.

Here is often where we get stuck.  We want to know God.  We want to follow Him.  We want to have faith in Him, but we don’t understand God’s way of making people right with Himself.  Why is that?  Because many well-meaning people in our past have obscured it with well meaning words and rituals and practices that hinder a true view of Jesus.

In my faith tradition, especially during my youth, we often confused a relationship with Jesus with following of rules to help us live better lives.  Nothing wrong with the rules per se, but it caused me to miss Jesus, the person I need to have faith in, as I focused on being a good member of my church community.   And, as I am friends now with clergy from many other denominations, our comparing notes has led me to conclude that most of them have had a similar time in their history where following rules was more important than following Jesus.  

So does that mean they were bad people?  No.  I believe they were wanting to follow Jesus, but simply bought into what someone else had told them they needed to do, ultimately leading to a type of legalism in the church.  And in their misguided zeal, the true picture of God was marred and many were led to conclude, “well if God is like that then...”   The problem with that conclusion is that the premise was never challenged.  If God is like that.  Perhaps instead, we should have asked, “Is God really like that?”  And then gone looking in Scripture for the answer.

Other things that keep us from understanding God’s ways are expectations that we have learned or deduced or heard that may or may not be true.  I had such expectations when my dad got cancer and then consequently died while I was begging God to spare his life.  It really made me question if I could remain a minister.  I mean, why minister to the goodness of a God that you suddenly didn’t feel was so good?  If you are interested in reading that story, it’s here on my blog from a few years back.

I have realized in the ensuing years that the devil can create a lot of misunderstood passages and misguided expectations that can lead us to the wrong conclusions, and when we don’t get the desired outcome, he can twist our consequent pain into a blaming of God and an anger at Him that is neither accurate nor deserved.

I prayed and believed and nothing happened...therefore God doesn’t care and He can no longer be trusted.  It spirals downward from there.  God could have done something but He didn’t so I hate Him!  And on we go, spiraling away from where the only real hope is found.

So what does God look like?And how do I find my faith?  The simple answer is God...looks like Jesus. Notice this question and Jesus’ answer in John 14:8,9   Philip said, “Lord, show us the Father, and we will be satisfied.” 9   Jesus replied, “Have I been with you all this time, Philip, and yet you still don’t know who I am? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father! So why are you asking me to show him to you? 

John 1 calls Jesus “The Word”.  Starting in verse 1 of John 1 we read:  
1 In the beginning the Word already existed.
The Word was with God,
and the Word was God.
2  He existed in the beginning with God.
3  God created everything through him,
and nothing was created except through him.
4  The Word gave life to everything that was created,a
and his life brought light to everyone.
5  The light shines in the darkness,
and the darkness can never extinguish it.a

John is saying that Jesus IS God and Jesus was basically saying to His disciples, if you want to see what God is like, look at Me.  Watch Me.  Hang out with Me and I will show you a pure undistorted picture of what God is like and what we want for you!

So, how did Jesus treat people? Matt. 14:14 Jesus saw the huge crowd as he stepped from the boat, and he had compassion on them and healed their sick.   Over an over we see that Jesus led with compassion.

How did He deal with those that made mistakes?  Read the story in John 8:1-11 of the woman caught in the very act of adultery and then read the ending.  You will see Jesus response.  
John 8: 7 They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” 8 Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.

v.9 When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman. 10 Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

v.11    “No, Lord,” she said. And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

And of course most people have heard the greatest statement about what God is like in John 3:16…but don’t often read what John 3:17 says.  And John 3:17 was the continuation of Jesus’ thought when he was talking to Nicodemus.  Check this out.

John 3:16    “For this is how God loved the world: He gavea his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. 

Yep…that’s the part I’ve heard.  But let Jesus continue that thought.

17 God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through him.

One of the biggest lies that Satan has perpetrated through the centuries is that God hates you and is just sitting up there trying to catch you doing something wrong.  But Jesus didn’t come to judge the world…but to save it.  That means that God wants you to be saved more than you can ever even have the desire to be saved.  He won’t be throwing obstacles in your path.  The devil does that.  Jesus calmly, relentlessly pursues us as we continue to look at the distorted picture of Him that Satan has been pushing ever since the Garden.

All that is required of us is to see a picture of Jesus/God who loves us, wants to save and redeem us and who continues to pursue our hearts in love, and then simply stop and respond in returned love.

Here’s the capstone verse, in my opinion: 
1John 5:11   And this is what God has testified: He has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. 12 Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have God’s Son does not have life. 13    I have written this to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, so that you may know you have eternal life. 

So the questions on the road to faith that we each have to answer are these: Do I have the Son of God in my life?  Have I accepted His forgiveness and am I willing to take the next step of faith that He lays out for me?